{"id":15273,"date":"2025-03-09T03:13:29","date_gmt":"2025-03-08T21:43:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/?p=15273"},"modified":"2025-03-09T03:13:29","modified_gmt":"2025-03-08T21:43:29","slug":"international-womens-day-monika-lewinsky-diana-hilary-clinton-vs-ahilya-bai-holkar-an-ideal-bhartiya-nari-%e0%a4%a8%e0%a4%be%e0%a4%b0%e0%a5%80-%e0%a4%b8%e0%a4%b6%e0%a4%95%e0%a5%8d%e0%a4%a4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/?p=15273","title":{"rendered":"International Women&#8217;s Day : Monika Lewinsky, Diana , Hilary Clinton Vs Ahilya Bai Holkar An Ideal Bhartiya Nari : \u0928\u093e\u0930\u0940 \u0938\u0936\u0915\u094d\u0924\u093f\u0915\u0930\u0923 \u092f\u093e\u00a0 \u092d\u093e\u0930\u0924\u0940\u092f \u0938\u0941\u0916\u0940 \u091c\u0940\u0935\u0928 ;\u0915\u094d\u092f\u093e \u091a\u0941\u0928\u0947\u0902\u00a0 ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>International Women&#8217;s Day : Monika Lewinsky, Diana , Hilary Clinton Vs Ahilya Bai Holkar An Ideal Bhartiya Nari : \u0928\u093e\u0930\u0940 \u0938\u0936\u0915\u094d\u0924\u093f\u0915\u0930\u0923 \u092f\u093e\u00a0 \u092d\u093e\u0930\u0924\u0940\u092f \u0938\u0941\u0916\u0940 \u091c\u0940\u0935\u0928 ;\u0915\u094d\u092f\u093e \u091a\u0941\u0928\u0947\u0902\u00a0 ?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/RKU-150x150.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-7382\" src=\"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/RKU-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/RKU-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/RKU-150x150-80x80.jpg 80w, https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/RKU-150x150-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>Rajiv Upadhyay<\/p>\n<p>On International Day it has now become a routine to project modern women as an aggressive , highly right conscious, ambitious working women , valuing her individuality and freedom. For a moment let us pause and evaluate the traditional Indian woman by comparing three iconic western women and later consider an option of being a traditional hindu wife in those roles.<\/p>\n<p>Monika Lewinsky was a twenty two year old ,beautiful\u00a0 intern in White House in 1995 . US president Bill Clinton fell in love with her and had sexual affair in White House . He paid for it by facing an impeachment trial and survived very narrowly. But a new series of Jokes evolved called Clinton Jokes. Lewinsky parents had divorced and both got remarried . Monika subsequently tried many things from doing a Masters in Psychology from LSE \/ London , becoming a cyber bullying activist but ultimately kept black mailing Clintons by wring but not publishing her memoirs .<\/p>\n<p>Hillary Clinton , wife of Bill Clinton , a lawyer , preferred to pardon her husband&#8217;s misadventure and save her marriage\u00a0 and was rewarded by becoming New York senator in 2000 and Secretary Of State in 2009 and contested US president&#8217;s election twice. She by opting for saving marriage in spite of public humiliation ,saved every one and is today a happy mother and wife and a very influential public figure.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Diana-Fayed.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-15275\" src=\"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Diana-Fayed-150x150.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Diana-Fayed-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Diana-Fayed-80x80.jpeg 80w, https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Diana-Fayed-100x100.jpeg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>Princess Diana , an incredible beauty , faced same dilemma like Hillary with Prince Charles and chose to be intolerant . She divorced , married an Egyptian muslim tycoon Dodi Fayed , died ignominiously and made UK Royalty a global laughing stock by revealing all juicy tales in public .<\/p>\n<p>She was highly loved by British public up to her death but was she happier than Hillary Clinton ? If she had forgiven Prince Charles and won him in Silsila&#8217;s Jaya style by devotion to her husband , would it not have been better ?<\/p>\n<p>Looking at the misery of Clinton , Charles and Monika , is Indian style sexual restraint from childhood not a better option than leaving girls free which promotes pre marital sex ?<\/p>\n<p>In contrast evaluate a totally devoted Bhartiya Nari , Rani Ahilya Bai Holkar . After her husband&#8217;s death, she wanted to be a Sati but her father in law Malhar Rao Holkar dissuaded her . She became the most celebrated hindu queen known for her progressive regime , restoration of temples , industrialisation of Indore and establishing many educational institutions .<\/p>\n<p>As we celebrate without justification , the so called International Women&#8217;s day , it is time to really evaluate which model will give us long lasting happiness .<\/p>\n<p>My obvious choice is the Indian family. It is a far better option where duty takes precedence over individual happiness and resultant family happiness is enduring and ever lasting.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>International Women&#8217;s Day : Monika Lewinsky, Diana , Hilary Clinton Vs Ahilya Bai Holkar An&#8230; <a class=\"meta-more\" href=\"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/?p=15273\">more <span class=\"meta-nav\">&raquo;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15274,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15273","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15273","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15273"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15273\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15276,"href":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15273\/revisions\/15276"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/15274"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15273"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15273"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patriotsforumindia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15273"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}